Curious if "SuperPooper Plan" What is for your child?

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Yes or no potty-trained?

Is your child potty-trained or not? Sometimes it's hard to tell, especially when accidents happen. Often your child is physically potty ready, but behavior throws a spanner in the works. Your childs character and your attitude as a parent may also influence the potty training either negatively or positively.

Time to potty train

Some parents take an active approach to potty training their child. Some do this a little earlier than others. Other parents trust in the development and maturation of their child and assume that the child will potty train on its own and indicate this. There is no such thing as the truth.

Each child is unique

Because one child is not the other. Some children want to do everything themselves, others ask for help for the slightest thing. Matter of character and upbringing. What is important in potty training is that your child is physically matured. That is, your child recognizes urges and can hold up for a while.

Does your child want to go to the toilet or potty?

Okay, so physical maturation is fine. Then the question is whether your child also wants to listen to the urge and wants or dares to let go on the toilet or potty. It may be that your child will do this on its own or that it needs support and motivation from you as a parent. Your attitude is important here.

Withholding leads to delay

So when your child does not listen to urges or want to go to the toilet or potty in a timely manner, it says nothing about your child's physical ability, but about your child's behavior and character. The consequence of not listening or going is withholding and delaying which often results in accidents.

Your child is potty-trained though...

If everything is working properly such as feeling the urge, recognizing this and being able to hold up or ignore them for a while, there is no physical obstacle to potty training. The focus should then be on the behavior of your child. You can let your child determine this for itself or support your child in this by being clear and making agreements.


Being clear feels to one parent like being strict or forcing, while to another it feels like tools to stand in their strength. What matters is that your child knows where it stands, and as a parent, by making agreements with your child, you can provide clarity. About peeing and pooping.

Peeing and pooping

Peeing and pooping happen daily, and your child needs to learn, no matter what, to relieve himself in a timely manner and let go in the places meant for this purpose. The potty or the toilet. The earlier you start using toilets, the easier it will become for your child in daily life. Then your child can go anywhere and anytime whenever it needs or feels it has to go.

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